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Church Hurt: Recognizing, Healing, and Growing
Spiritual Life

Church Hurt: Recognizing, Healing, and Growing

“Church hurt” is a phrase familiar to those who have experienced pain, disappointment, or betrayal within their church family. It’s a pain unlike many others because it often comes from those we expect to love and support us most. I faced this kind of hurt. A few people within my church community began spreading unsettling rumors and engaging in gossip about me. I was torn between staying and forgiving or leaving and healing from a distance. By the grace of God, I chose the former. This article is for anyone wrestling with similar feelings. What is Church Hurt? Church hurt […]

Random acts of kindness
Spiritual Life

Effects of Random Acts of Kindness

Effects of Random Acts of Kindness Have you ever experienced a random act of kindness from a stranger? One day, I was driving along a busy highway, surrounded by large trucks and fast-moving cars. As I drove, a massive truck appeared in my rearview mirror. The driver kept flashing his lights. Naturally, I assumed something was wrong, maybe with his truck, so I pulled over to let him pass. He passed but didn’t go far. To my surprise, the truck stopped in the middle of the road. The driver got out and walked towards me, holding up traffic behind him. […]

Words can be great or they can degrade, or even worse, they can teach hate
Spiritual Life

Words can be great or they can degrade, or even worse, they can teach hate

One Saturday afternoon, right after the Sabbath service, I caught up with a friend. We exchanged the usual pleasantries: “How was your week?” “Has God been good to you?” It was nothing unusual, just a peaceful moment between friends. As we chatted, another friend—someone I’ve known for quite some time and hold close—walked by. We smiled, exchanged quick greetings, and they continued on their way. But as soon as they were out of sight, the friend I was with leaned in, lowering their voice. “You know what they’ve been up to, right?” they said, their words dripping with insinuation. For […]